I have decided to read a chapter from the book of Proverbs each day of the month of May. With 31 chapters in Proverbs and 31 days in May, the plan is easy. Because Proverbs was written by Solomon to impart wisdom to his children (and all of us), there are major themes repeated. For example: the gain of wisdom, the fear of God, the use of words, the value of hard work, etc. Another theme that catches my attention is this: be willing to receive discipline and instruction from God and others. If I could rewind the clock, I would have avoided some painful mistakes in my life by humbling myself and asking for help. So, how can we grow from correction today, no matter how old we are? Here are a few insights: 1) Invite discipline and advice. “Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but he who hates correction is stupid” (Prov. 12:1). The only way to learn is to admit our ignorance and ask questions…and not pretend we know it all. 2) Repent of our pride. “Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice” (Prov. 13:10). “No one’s gonna tell me what to do!” is the motto of many who misunderstand independence and respect. Criticism from others often hurts, but we can gain from it, if we are willing to grow and improve. 3) Keep the end in mind. To those who refuse correction, Solomon warns, “At the end of your life you will groan, when your flesh and body are spent. You will say, “How I hated discipline! How my heart spurned correction! I would not obey my teachers or listen to my instructors” (Prov. 5:11-13). God loves us so much that He brings correction and discipline when we need it. Sometimes He uses the Word of God and the Spirit of God. Other times, He may correct us through circumstances. And, He often uses other people in our lives, especially those in authority. Welcome correction and discipline as loyal friends! “Do not despise the Lord’s discipline and do not resent his rebuke, because the Lord disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in” (Prov. 3:11). Change is often uncomfortable, but it yields good fruit to those who seek God’s ways!
Pastor Mark Boucher